Studies say children as young as two can recognize differences in race.  And despite having our first African-American president in office, racial stereotypes still abound in society.  So, it's important to address issues of diversity early with your kids.  But how do you adequately address race while speaking age appropriately?  Momversation provides 5 tips on talking to your kids about race.

1.  Acknowledge differences that your child notices, but also emphasize the inner qualities that make us all part of one human race.

2.  Don't judge your child's questions or make her feel ashamed.  Instead, answer questions directly and honestly and don't overexplain.  Don't be afraid to say, "I don't know," and answer only the questions that are asked.

3.  Sometimes it's what you do, not what you say.  Don't use labeling terms around your child (the Asian man; the Black girl).  If others use labeling or even racist terms, let your child know that you disagree.

4.  Expose your child to many different types of people and cultures.  Don't pretend everyone is the same, but make sure your kid knows that everyone should be treated equally.

5.  Use books!  Multiracial Sky has a great list of books about race that you can read with your children.

What are your tips for tackling this tricky subject?

 



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sonset
3 yearss ago
Frankly, you are all over the place growingupartists. It is really as simple as helping your child not judge others or themselves on the basis of appearances and reprehensible adult stereotypes. And these stereotypes differ in their virility with the ones on race being pretty high up on the list. And who is saying, we are all the same inside. Unless you know any better, you should not be expecting non-human society behavior from others different looking than you. Is that so hard to get?