Post by Deborah Kagan

If it seems like the desire for hot sex is stuffed  between the piles of laundry and crayons, don’t worry.  There are some super easy and effective ways to amp up the love flow in the bedroom.

First thing to note is that the bedroom has a massive effect on our entire life. It’s the room that houses the bed. The bed is considered one of the three Life Pillars in the ancient art of Feng Shui. It's the closest thing to our physical body.

We literally spend a third of our lives in bed (okay, maybe a little less when you’re a busy mom). The objects, colors, symbols and furniture we place in, on or around the bed are crucial to our success in life.  Including success in our sex lives!
 
Here are a few hot juicy tips to turn your bedroom into a love zone, courtesy of Momversation’s resident “mom mojo recovery expert,” our own Deborah Kagan!

1. Red. Place something red in the bedroom. Throw pillow. Candle. Blanket. Lamp shade. Red is the color of passion, it represents the element fire and it’s yang (powerful and thrusting) energy will definitely spice things up.
2. No photos of the kids. Yes. I said it. You’ve got to get all the photos of the kids out of the bedroom. This is the one room in the house for the three R’s – Rest, Romance, Rejuvenation. The kids are with you all the time (physically, emotionally and spiritually). Let the bedroom be for you and your husband or significant other.
3. Secret Stash. Have a locked box, small section of your nightstand drawer or other easily accessible area stocked with sex paraphernalia. This way they’re at your fingertips. Plus, they’ll become a silent whisper reminding you to come out and play from time to time. A few must haves are a good lube and a bullet vibrator.
4. Clear the Clutter. Get all the computers, kids toys, exercise equipment, stacks and stacks of magazines, newspapers and books outta’ there. All these things (which aren’t part of the R’s) distract you and your partner from sinking into smooth sexy vibrations. Make some room for the lovin’.   
5. Sensory Stimulus. Sight, touch, taste, smell, sound. Adorn not only your bedroom in one or some of these areas, do it on your body as well. Put on that silky chemise you keep for special occasions. Light the pretty candle and, what the heck, put on some Barry White.

If anything, you’ll get a good chuckle and might fall into bed laughing until you start making out.
 
Deborah Kagan is a mom counselor and mojo recovery specialist who works with women who have lost their sexual spark and want to find it and feel juicy again. Get her FREE REPORT: 9 ways to decode your environment, turbo charge your life and get on the fast path to sexy mamma-hood.