Calm Down. It's Only the Internet
So by now, many of you have probably heard about the brouhaha surrounding one of the members of our community, Nic, and her run in with the TSA. If you haven't, read her original story here and her subsequent apology here.

You back? That's right, Nic posted a story about mistreatment by the TSA; the TSA responded by posting a surveillance video of her on their blog (who knew the TSA had a blog?!), and it seemingly belied the claims she made in her blog post (the worst of which was that the TSA removed her child from her during a search).
Do I know if Nic exaggerated her claims? No. But if I were a betting gal, I'd bet on the TSA's version of what happened. After all, they have a video tape of the incident.
But, my friends, that doesn't mean that I consider Nic a liar or evil or whatever other crap she's been called in the past week. Search @mybottlesup on Twitter, and you'll see her called a "lying piece of trash" and "a crazy," among other things. Someone was so outraged (OUTRAGED!), he supposedly posted her personal information, including her address, on the Internet. (Don't hurt me Webizens; I said supposedly because I only read that secondhand!)
There are 3 potential reasons (in my estimation) of why this story unfolded in the manner it did:
1. The incident happened exactly the way Nic claimed, and the TSA doctored the footage.
Not bloody likely.
2. The incident occurred, and Nic saw it as her one-way ticket to Internet super-stardom.
Sure, there are plenty of Internet celebs who got their start through hard luck stories, but how much would this TSA post really drive up her site's traffic? I guess she could have used it as a freelance piece, but anyone with half a brain would know that a mag would ask for the TSA's response. It doesn't seem likely that this was done on purpose with the intention of site-whoring (for lack of a better term).
3. The incident happened, and she described it through her personal interpretation of the event.
This seems to me to be the most likely scenario. Have you never had an experience that shook you to the core, one that you might have exaggerated because it seemed to happen that way at the time? Maybe the TSA worker picked up her child for a second. Maybe it seemed like she was snapped at when she wasn't. Heck, maybe she exaggerated a bit to tell a better story.
It's a personal blog, not The New York Times, people.
And some people are so angry because they think this story ruins the "credibility" of bloggers. Pshaw! Anyone with access to an Internet connection can start a blog. That's why "bloggers" are not called "journalists." You know, journalists... people who have been educated in the craft of journalism. And if newspapers should be read with a critical eye, then blog posts should be read with two. And a magnifying glass.
And for people who are mad because they love being self righteous, seriously? Find something a bit more pressing to get all peeved over.
Because when it comes down to it, who really cares? It's something at which to simply shrug your shoulders and say, "Meh." It's her blog. If she wants to say she was abducted by aliens, then she can. If she libels someone, he'll sue. As for the rest of us, it has no bearing. We can always click the little X's in the corners of our browser windows.
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3 Comments
Christine, where is your blog? I'd like to read it. I ask because you have all these opinions about people from Michelle Duggar to Nic. You're basically an anonymously blogger who snarks on people right? Which I think is awesome, but I just find it odd because you work with people who'd tear you up if you actully were an anonymous blogger.
Mon, 2009-10-26 08:14
My theory, and yes I have come up with a theory behind this (too much time on my hands?) No, really I was floored by Nic's first post. I could imagine it happening to me as I was reading it and I was pissed off for her and super freaked that someone, a government agent, could TAKE my child if they see fit at an airport, for a paci clip. Yeah, the post got me!
BUT, then I heard all the commotion, watched the TSA blog and read Nic's follow up post.
Now, back to my theory...
Nic herself in her first post said she suffers from anxiety attacks. She said that she was having one when all this TSA shit went down. She stated she didn't even remember calling her husband, but she had. DING DING DING! Hello, you hear that...she didn't remember!! Meaning it was all a blur, she was freaked the fuck out, and you can see in the tape she's distraught. Did anyone come to think that perhaps she blacked out in her own mind. And she truly, really, in her own mind, thought her little boy was taken away?! I do!
My husband thinks I'm giving her too much credit but he's never suffered a panic attack
In any case, the TSA did come back with a whopper of a throw down to her post.
But, I do wonder, if she called her hubby and mom, where was that on the tape? Can we see phone records?
Just kidding.
I'd say that if Nic was trying to pull a fast one on everyone, she has now learned her lesson.
If she wrote what she truly believes to be true and then saw that tape...I hope she gets help to get her panic attacks under control.
Mon, 2009-10-26 12:23
I for one appreciate that she was called out by the TSA and that her lies were exposed. You don't have to agree with me but I prefer honesty. I was more than disappointed when I found out A Million Little Pieces was not a piece of Non-Fiction.
Perhaps Nic should start writing fictional stories. She seems to be really good at it.
Mon, 2009-10-26 12:50