Meth Moms
If you've purchased OTC containing pseudoephedrine in the last few years, you've probably had to fork over your ID and sign a release. That's because the government is on a crusade to rid the country of methamphetamine (synthesized with the decongestant ingredient), which has devastated rural America. You're used to seeing the usual images of a methamphetamine user: she's poor, lives in the country, and her looks have been ravaged due to her drug use. But another, not less disturbing image is slowly taking over. These new users are called meth moms, and they're abusing the powerful stimulant in order to "do it all." But at what cost?

What are the benefits of meth use to these mothers? It's cheap, it's accessible, and it gives busy and tired mamas a big boost of energy. But it also causes symptoms like delusions, hallucinations, and violence. It's highly addictive and illegal, with penalities including long jail sentences. Worst of all, mothers with a meth addiction often lose their children to the state.
So, how many mothers are using this dangerous pick me up? No one knows for sure, but one report says perhaps thousands... and growing. One mom's story is all too familiar:
I set out to be the perfect mom. I used hand sanitizer before I touched her, and boiled her bottles. But Cameren was waking up every two hours and I was worn out. I knew just what would perk me up — and I started feeling that familiar urge.
I felt guilty when I started smoking meth again, but I also told myself it was helping me be a better mom. A few puffs gave me the energy to clean the apartment, do Cameren's laundry, run some errands, and still be wide awake whenever she cried.
This mother eventually was jailed and lost custody of her child due to her addiction but was able to get clean and regain custody. Many mothers, however, are not so lucky.
So, why do moms feel the need to risk life and family in order to project an image of perfection? Are moms under way too much pressure? Have you thought about (or have done) drugs in order to keep up with the demands of motherhood? Join the Momversation, and tell us about it.
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Tue, 2010-03-02 18:52
I agree, Carley... this is horrifying. I will definitely read your Interview Series about the "perfect mom" syndrome that is so widespread these days. The scary thing is the message this kind of parenting sends to our kids: that somehow we're never good enough.
The extra scary thing about this post re: meth moms is the nature of this particular drug. It is NASTY! This drug destroys your brain. Those who go into rehab for meth addiction have so much trouble getting clean because regular rehab cycles don't work for them. It takes a very, very long time for the brain to heal itself from a meth addiction, so those addicted to this drug need much longer stays in rehab (and this is often not available).
To understand the destructive effects of meth on the addict & his/her loved ones, I highly recommend the book, "Beautiful Boy" by David Sheff (a memoir of a father whose son was addicted to meth) and "Tweak" by Nic Sheff (the son of David Sheff, who wrote his own account of his addiction). Brutal, but incredible, stories.
Tue, 2010-02-09 09:14
OMG. This is horrifying, and yet it makes perfect sense. The twisted logic of "I know meth will make me a better mom" is a symptom of the larger problem we have in a culture that talks a good game about the "most important job in the world" but provides no support... only jeers, jokes, criticism and blame. There is simply no way for us moms to get done everything that's asked of us, and as usual we're the first ones to throw even MORE expectations on the pile. I explored this topic a lot in my Perfect Moms Finish Last Interview Series, where I talked to 20 moms about the pressures they feel to be perfect, and what they do so it doesn't derail them. Speaking to these women really inspired ME to get a grip on my own "Perfect Mom Disorder", and I have the most compassion for the moms who feel like drugs are the only way they can attempt to measure up.
Carley Knobloch
http://www.perfectmomsfinishlast.com
Mon, 2010-02-08 13:52