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February 05, 2010

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Vaccines and autism: for years, there has been talk that the MMR immunization causes autism in otherwise healthy children.  Many in the health field, however, dismissed the link.  Last February, it was shown that the doctor who first made the link had faked the results.  And now the medical journal The Lancet retracted the article in which those results were published, an unusual move on the part of the British publication.  But will the debate rage on?  Do parents like Jenny MCarthy still insist that the MMR vaccine caused their children's disorder?  Daphne Brogdon of Cool Mom asks, "Vaccines and autism: debate over?"

 

What do you think?  Is this the final word on the vaccine-autism link?  Or will people cling to the idea that vaccines can cause autism?  Join the Momversation by commenting on the video.

 

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First off, I want to recognize that we are all doing what we feel is best for our children. How awesome is it that we live somewhere where we are allowed to make these decisions for our families? I know these debates can get pretty heated so I just wanted to give a shout out to all of us for just trying to do the right thing.

I spoke with my daughter's pediatrician early on and basically said - "give me a reason to vaccinate" She, although she was very pro-vaccine, couldn't do it. Most of the diseases we are vaccinating for are so rare now that you're much more likely to get hit by that SUV Mindy was talking about. There were two reasons my doctor told me she couldn't give me a good reason to vaccinate. a) these diseases are so rare that it is INCREDIBLY unlikely for your child to get them and b) even though it is so rare she had actually had a child die who HAD been vaccinated. Why are we ok with putting aluminum and formaldehyde and a host of other things (these are KNOWN carcinogens) in our children's bodies on the off chance they "could" get sick. They "could" get sick anyway. We can't control everything.

I completely agree that we need good, quality studies done that are not funded by the pharmaceutical companies or anyone who benefits from vaccines. (doctors!) One important point about vaccines though, is that, even if we get a "good" study, it may not really tell us what we need to know. Case studies measure the antibodies created in the bloodstream, NOT immunity to the disease. There is a difference. When we are vaccinated, the culture goes directly into our bloodstream and bypasses the other defense mechanisms our body has (skin and lymph system) and completely cuts out their protections. Our culture is so enamored with scientific data that we completely disregard any sort of anecdotal evidence. This is so frustrating to me - these people are not all crazy! There is something going on and these mothers feel it but, in this instance, and this instance only our culture tells us to ignore our gut. We are told in every other aspect of life to just trust our instincts, our heart, our true self, but, when it comes to something like this, we are just told to shut up and trust the doctors, the experts. Unfortunately, the way our medical system is set up, they aren't the experts, the drug companies are. Our doctors get information on drug safety from the drug companies so....it all makes sense I guess.

Thu, 2010-02-11 08:50

 

Then you talked to the wrong doctor.
These diseases we're vaccinating against are rare HERE. In smalltown-hometown America. Why? Because we've been vaccinated! They are NOT rare in Mexico, South America, the islands closest to our country...Africa, Asia...even large parts of Europe still have them!

And since when is your kid in a bubble that will *never* be exposed to people, food, clothing, objects, etc from these places? When you put your child on a school bus...do you know where her bus driver has been? Maybe her bus driver is Ethiopian. And he went home for a quick visit, or his family joined him here recently. They could easily be carrying small pox. You child brushes past him as she takes her seat...and 12 days later she's dead b/c no one in the American hospital near your suburb could recognize it. Cuz they've never seen it. Cuz we've basically erradicated it here. Except...Bus Driver Berihun wasn't in your "rare" equation.

It's actually very common now to be surrounded by people & objects (biological or otherwise) from non-American soil. I don't want to get all xenophobic here...cuz I have no issue with non-American born folks...and only a few issues with items not produced in the U.S. What if your daughter decides to take off to another country when she grows up? Ya know if she joins the military, they will vaccinate her...ALL AT ONCE. Which, I'm sure you will agree would be her own life choice to make...but what if she marries someone in the military...and ends up traveling to other parts of the world. Sometimes depending on how you will be entering a country, there is no vaccine requirement...so she gets there and she gets infected. And I don't think that is a rare exception at all.

I get that willingly putting carcinogens in our kids seems like the dumbest thing ever to CHOOSE to do to them. But what's our other option? Keep them clean & healthy...then release them to the world and they die of Scarlet Fever?

Thu, 2010-02-11 09:27

 

I find it really odd that both of your tragic death scenarios involved diseases we don't vaccinate for.

But you are right that those diseases are rare, almost unheard of here. Same for tuberculosis. These things have all but vanished, and public health experts have no problem acknowledging that this is probably because of better sanitation, nutrition, overall health care, and possibly the cyclical nature of most diseases, but if I try to apply the same logic to diseases we vaccinate for, most people in the medical industry will swear up and down that responsibility and credit for a decrease in incidence and/or death from these diseases lays squarely on the shoulders of vaccines, the great boon of modern medicine. Hallelujah. You don't have to be a doctor or a scientist to question the logic of that belief.

If you look at the hard data and find that belief has a solid foundation in science, then fine. And if you ever find that data, let me know, because I have been really looking for it for a long time.

Ultimately, my kids will do their own research on vaccines if/when they reach an age that they might have concerns with exposure to disease, if they decide to travel to a country where polio is still circulating, for example. I will support whatever decision they make. I trust that they will be just as capable of reason when they reach adulthood as I am.

Fri, 2010-02-12 11:39

 
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I just want to say, that TB is not rare it isa very active disease in our country. But, you are right we do not vaccinate against it.
As for the disease we do vaccinate agaist thses disease are rare but could come back to atack our children because the herd health is no longer covered.
If in a class of 20 you have one child that is not vaccinated there is really no issue. All the other children then act as that childs vaccine. But when you get a class of 20 wth 10 kids not vaccinate then the herd health is no longer solid and a disease has a chance to come in and attack.

Tue, 2010-03-02 14:25

 

Actually, that bus driver IS a part of my scenario. When I said they are very rare - I'm saying that they are, statistically, scientifically, very, very rare. Ethiopian bus drivers included. And, like I said, they could die from Scarlet Fever anyway.

If we were a family that traveled frequently to undeveloped countries, I may have made a different decision...Like I said before, we don't have good studies so, at this point, like many things, it's all about managing risk.

Thu, 2010-02-11 09:44

 

Measles infects 23 million people a year (in the US & abroad). I bet they didn't think it was all that rare...it killed about 350,000 people...of which, more than 300,000 were children. The ratio of illness to death doesn't seem that bad...but I bet every one of those 23 million wondered if they'd end up in that fraction that died.

Whooping cough is at it's highest rates in decades. B/c it became "rare" and then people stopped vaccinating against it. Granted, I don't think whooping cough kills...I'd rather have my kid sound awful than be dead...but some of the tragic situations that have come out of vaccine issues is kids that have some underlying (and UNKNOWN/undiagnosed) health issue being horribly injured or killed after getting the vaccine which exacerbated the problem or turned it into something else entirely. But I think that's where you have to look at it and go, do I take the chance that my kid is okay...or do I keep this from them?

I do feel grateful and blessed that my kids seem to be healthy & when the doctor asks about family history and goes down the list of cancers & disorders...I can answer "no" to 98% of them. There are 2 cases of cancer...that are 3 & 4 generations removed from my daughters. There is also some elderly dementia on one side...so it seems like I can say vaccines have been good for us...b/c those unknown, underlying problems don't exist for us. My oldest child won't need any additional vaccines until she is 10 or 11, I think. That's 4 or 5 years off. My youngest won't need anymore shots until it's time to start school...in 3 years. That's a lot of time for us to learn. But in the end, unless the vaccine is no longer mandatory for state health requirements, we'll have to get them anyway. Being a military family means we couldn't join my husband if he were stationed overseas. If we fail to vaccinate they say, "Fine...but you're staying stateside. Daddy will go away for the next 3 years, good luck with that." And that's the lifestyle we've chosen to live. Graciously, our family is still healthy in spite of it. :)

Thu, 2010-02-11 11:49

 

I just joined as a result of following Heather's blog. Interesting site and rather eye-opening. I see lots of opinions which is great, everyone is entitled to have them. What I do find interesting is what is missing from the comments. Lots of opinions used as if they are facts but not hard references. I wonder how many people offering their opinions have actually done the research on both sides before arriving at their conclusion (other than Ladyofnomads)?

I'm in support of safe vaccines and maintaining my right to make an informed decision. I'd like to see a good vaccinated vs. unvaccinated study - wouldn't the rest of you? It has never been done - wonder why? I'd like to know why our Congress exempted vaccine makers from any legal liability? I'd like to see studies done on the synergy of giving more than one vaccine at a time - what does it do to a body to give it live virus MMR (measles, mumps & rubella) at the same time - rarely does an inidividual get all three diseases at the same time yet we think nothing of doing it on purpose to small children. We're more cautious about adding new foods into their diets as babies than we are about what we inject them with. I'd like to know why the medical community is just now finding out using Tylenol depletes the body of glutathione which is necessary for the body to detox toxins. Google Tylenol & vaccines, you'll see a study came out last fall showing that using Tylenol has reduced the effectiveness of vaccines. I'd like to know why in the '80's autism was 1 in 10,000 and now it is 1 in 100? Frankly, I'd like to know why our government tells us time and time again they don't why BUT it isn't the vaccines - sounds rather contradictory.

Also, regarding the Wakefield situation it isn't clear from the comments but this was a case study on ONE live virus vaccine. Only one out of the entire schedule. His case study found measles virus in the guts of autisic kids and it shouldn't have been there. He suggested further research. I fail to understand how the Lancet's retraction can be taken as the gospel truth that no vaccines contribute/cause autism. The case study never said that in the first place!

For those that would choose autism over death that is your choice. I'm just wondering, though, if you'd trade places with my friend? At 14 her son is still in diapers, noverbal and severly self-mutalating. For her, and thousands of others, they've seen a correlation to vaccines. How do we know they are wrong - our government won't fund the studies to prove either way. The original study that was done, and paid for by the taxpayers, is now being held overseas in a pharma co. vault where US laws have not effect. Wonder why?

My biggest fear is that we are so caught up in judging each other's decisions that we are loosing sight of the big problem.... this is the sickest generation of kids ever in the US. The first generation of kids who are not expected to have a life expectancy longer than their parents. The US also has the most agressive vaccine schedule in the world. We also prescribe more ADD meds than anyone else. I don't think we should be focused only on autism. I fear autisim is the tip of the iceberg - don't forget the huge increases in ADD, allergies, eczema, learning disabilities, sensory issues, etc. Go to fourteenstudies.com to see the reviews of the old studies that supposedly prove no link and go from there. We have to move past judging and blaming each other and become a united front. As parents we should be demanding solid science, done by someone other that the pharma co.

Wed, 2010-02-10 12:22

 

Umm...It's unethical to test on children. So...THAT is why there is no comparison of vaccinated versus unvaccinated, b/c there's no way to control the test groups without compromising ethics. Sure, we could test on rabbits or rats or something, but it's not going to have the same results.

Who would want to trade places with your friend?? That situation sounds like a living nightmare. But her son could also have been born with congenital issues that could cause him to be that way anyway! A "correlation" to vaccines doesn't mean "we never should have vaccinated".

I may not have done as much research as one of the above commentors, but I still did as much research as I felt was relevent to my sitaution.

So many of the issues you mentioned are also hard to diagnose in general. Did you know the peanut allergy test has a high false positive?? Wouldn't that mean it was possible other allergy tests can be faulty? ADD is a subjective disease that allows people to tick off a list of behaviors and make a determination...For instance, my observation of one behavior may lean on the conservative side, and someone else may see it as extreme, based on their own *opinion*. Hmm...is this jacket more Navy blue or Midnight blue? The air hangs with more pollutants than ever...and you think it's unusual that there's a higher incidence of eczema? SLS is a skin irritant used to make soaps lather. Containing fairly harmless elements, but compounded in a way that could irritate you. Learning & sensory issues is another subjective one, but also something that may be easier to diagnose with new tools & technology. Maybe "issues" are the new normal? Or were always normal, but it's easier to set them apart from other things b/c they can be more easily categorized.

In addition to aggressive vaccine schedules, the past couple of decades have added more & more processed and refined foods to our diets. Diets rich in preservatives & chemicals. People being medicated simply to appease them, rather than let nature take it's course. Men & women putting these things into their bodies, having no understanding of how they may effect reproduction. And maybe it doesn't effect the first generation, or the second, but as these foreign invaders build up in our systems, our bodies are no longer able to function they way they were intended.

Wed, 2010-02-10 18:13

 

Hey SilverXeno,

Yes, I agree there are situations where it would be unethical to test on children but there are large groups of children whose parents have chosen not to vaccinate - that is not unethical. Even Dr. Bernadine Healy, M.D., former head of the National Institutes of Health, has gone on record stating that we need more and better testing done in order to identify subgroups who may not be able to handle vaccines. She has also gone on to say that she fears the testing isn't being done because we are afraid of what we'll find. Did you know that the vaccine court has found vaccines to cause autism in several cases? Primate studies are being done currently, if I remember correctly. I also believe it was last summer a study was done in Canada that showed a significant reduction in asthma by postponing one of the shots (I can't remember which one right now) by several months. My point being that there are studies being done but we rarely hear about them in the press (and they are studies done by reputable universities).

Yes, you are correct many of the other things we are seeing could be the result of any number of toxic insults. But, if you talk to educators and school nurses from 30 years ago they'll tell you kids have changed. I also agree that ADD (sensory issues as well) is very subjective but subjective or not it sure hasn't stopped schools/teachers from suggesting kids be medicated. I can't believe they'd request that if they weren't having problems managing their classrooms. A study done by UC-Davis this year demonstrates that the increase in autism is not due to doctors doing a better job of diagnosis.

Correlation/causation is old. I have a hard time thinking of any other consumer product, after this many years of getting the same type of reports, that would still be blown off with that excuse. Frankly, I think it is a cop out. We could get to the bottom of this if we really wanted to. I mean, we chase down tainted spinach or peanut butter for as long as it takes but when it comes to this issue we should just be done talking? As you pointed out in your post, there are many variables and many changes that have occurred in our lifetimes. Perhaps we are all participating in the biggest uncontrolled experiment, sometimes it seems like it! As you implied, perhaps it will impact the next generation harder than this one- not a very comforting thought.

I find it interesting that you stated eczema could be due to "fairly harmless elements, but compounded in a way that could irritate you". In light of what is happening to this generation of children don't we need to find out what happens when known toxins are injected into people or consumed by people? No testing has been done to determine a "safe" level of thimersal or aluminum in children. You may feel that you've done all of the research that you need to do in order to make your decisions in life but there are many people who don't think good science has been done. As I stated before, I think autism is the tip of the iceberg. Maybe you are right, we've become so toxic it will be the new normal - but is that what we want? I don't think the discussion between autism & vaccines is over and won't be until some very important questions are answered with good science. You know, we don't need 100% compliance to achieve herd immunity. If we'd do the research and learn to identify the vulnerable, more than likely we could maintain herd immunity without sacrificing the vulnerable - wouldn't that be the best for everyone?

Wed, 2010-02-10 21:08

 

I just had a big, long post...and I deleted it. I think we actually agree with each other...we just don't seem to be vocalizing it the same way.

No...I don't want general unwellness to become the new normal...yes, I want to minimize the impact on the vulnerable.

There seems to be a "fit-in-the-mold" scenario for our current modern life. Everyone can't possibly fit into these molds. There will always be outliers. The inliers (is that a word?) look at the outliers and try to make it make sense. And they create an obtuse definition in which to lump the outliers together.

Wed, 2010-02-10 22:33

 

I'm not anti-vaccine so much as pro vaccine choice. I have waded deep into the actual research, reading published papers, vaccine inserts, CDC data, morbidity/mortality charts that span decades and talking to doctors and researchers as well as other concerned parents, and the deeper I went, the murkier those waters became. I don't think it's clear at all whether the benefits outweigh the risk or vice versa. Personally I have chosen to NOT vaccinate - for now. This has nothing to do with the autism debate for me.

There are a lot of risks to vaccinating that I think are downplayed that should not be, not just for my child, but to public health at large, and not just regarding the rise in autism or auto-immune diseases that may or may not have anything to do with the massive increase in vaccines and their doses, but with overall, long-term disease control strategies. It bothers me that we see fewer outbreaks of measles, but it kills a higher percentage of people now when an outbreak does strike. It bothers me that getting a vaccine for one strain of a disease can make you more susceptible to other types (referring to serotype replacement). It bothers me that there is so little research being done on waning immunity. It bothers me that vaccines get rushed out the door because the manufacturer persuades the CDC - far too easily, IMO - that there is great suffering and thus great need, only to pull the vaccine a year or two later because it turned out there were serious health risks they missed(like the first version of the Rotavirus vax causing intussususception [sp?]), or it just plain didn't work(wish I could remember which one I'm thinking of here). Shouldn't that have been figured out in clinical trials? The makers issue blanket statements on efficacy and then change the number of doses required because that percentage turned out to be total bs. Some vaccines have multiple studies citing wildly different efficacy rates. MMR is supposed to be one of the most effective, but some studies propose that it may be only around 70% effective on average. Bah! How is anybody supposed to decide with such crappy, contradictory data? So I'm a little skeptical of the purported benefits, especially for someone living in a modern society with full access to decent nutrition, sanitation, and overall healthcare. Those things have a huge impact on disease rates, and they have largely evolved at the same time as vaccines. For me the world has moved too fast, done too much to say X causes Y and Y causes Z. The causes of disease reduction are most likely numerous, and placing too much emphasis on vaccines' role, I think, gives a false sense of security. Equally so with something like autism.

Second, the propaganda machine totally ticks me off. Popular perception of the herd immunity theory is what gets me most. There is supposed to be a specific threshold amount - a percentage of people that have to have immunity - in order for outbreaks to stop. With regards to vaccines, this means a certain percentage have to be vaccinated. It's different for each vaccine based on approximations of their effectiveness. For most vaccines, you're talking about somewhere between 80 and 90% of the population. It is important to realize - for those of you attacking non-vaccinators like me - that we are way over that threshold for childhood vaccinations. Parents like me who are taking a closer look and a more cautious approach to vaccines are a tiny minority, less than 1%, I believe. And, hello, we're still having outbreaks. Even if herd immunity theories and efficacy ratings are totally, 100% accurate, you still have a huge amount of un-vaccinated or under-vaccinated adults running around totally screwing up this herd immunity thing. And since we don't actually have any idea how long vaccine-induced immunity lasts, we always will have this problem. And the drug-makers are not in the business of fixing the gaps and oversights which might be causing problems down the line. They are in the business of making new drugs. New vaccines to add to the schedule every year. Meanwhile I can't figure out why my pediatrician is screaming at me for saying it's unnecessary to give Hep B vax (a sexually transmitted disease by the way, and again a vax without data on how long immunity lasts) to my newborn. And teenagers are getting pertussis and chicken pox and shingles. And articles tell horror stories and lambaste parents who aren't getting the DTaP or HIB for their kids because they are "putting the immune compromised at risk" when neither of those vaccines do much if anything to stop carriage or transmission. Constant misinformation and hostility and scare tactics keep anybody from getting the real, whole story, which works out great for the vaccine manufacturer because they don't want people to know the truth. Conspiracy theorists think the big secret is that they are trying to make us sick, trying to control us somehow. Really, the secret is that they don't have any answers to the questions, not any more than I do.

So when it comes out that Wakefield modified or falsified the results of his studies, I can't say that I'm surprised; it seems like everybody's doing it. But I still feel like there's an elephant in the room.

Mon, 2010-02-08 10:14

 

I'm due with my first baby in 6 weeks and I've given this topic a lot of thought. I never considered NOT vaccinating at all, but I looked at the possibility of delaying and/or skipping some of the shots. I read the research. I got screamed at by both sides (which, by the way, does NOT hurt the feelings of a pregnant, hormonal person, jerkfaces...) and no matter what I decided, I was fully confident that someone was going to be standing on the sidelines telling me that I was DOING IT WRONG!!!

The problem is that I believe in vaccines and I believe in medicine. I don't think that there are giant corporations headed by a Mr. Smithers equivalent trying to kill my kid in order to make a few extra dollars. (Perhaps this is because both my husband and myself work for (different) giant corporations that get accused of this all the time and we both know the truth - in general giant corporations aren't smart enough to defraud the public in this way. Bernie Madoff, fine, different story... but most giant corporations don't know their backsides from their elbows.)

I'm not a conspiracy theorist. I don't think that my pediatrician wants to inject my daughter with evil microbes to turn her into a robot that works for the government. (Now, if he wanted to inject her with microbes that helped her sleep through the nights or make her not a picky eater... wait, what were we talking about... oh, yeah...)

In the end, I'm a first time mother and this is my first baby and I will turn into a lioness and rip anyone apart with my bare hands if anyone tries to hurt her. (Run away, future 13 year old boys...) However, I've decided that we will be getting her vaccines on the recommended schedule, depending on her reactions to them. If she gets the first couple and they go well (other than the screaming and the soreness and the slight fever and all of those other "normal" reactions, of course) than I don't see a reason to veer off course.

If I notice that her reactions to the vaccines are different than "normal," I'm very lucky that I've got a peditrician who treats me like an adult (because last time I checked, I was) and we can sit down and talk about normal versus abnormal and what we should do about it. I know that some parents are not so lucky and their doctors treat them like cattle and they want to get them in and get them out and I can understand that when their concerns are not being addressed, they can feel out of control or like they're being used or treated poorly. Some doctors are great doctors, but bad communicators, since they don't teach you how to deal with concerned parents in medical school.

Here's what it comes down to for me: you don't "get better" from polio. If you have a cough or a cold or an ear infection, your body fights off the virus and you're no worse for the wear. Polio, meningitis, pertussis - these diseases can kill you. However, some parents feel like it's not worth the risk of the vaccine and I can understand that and I try not to judge them. I know how crappy it feels when everyone is telling you that YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG and I don't want to make anyone else feel that way.

Sun, 2010-02-07 09:40

 

Since you're new to this...I'll give you this (unsolicited, HAHA!) advice...Nursing a baby (or even letting them drink from a bottle) DURING the shots can help soothe them...it has a calming and supposed anesthetic effect.

There were a couple of articles on it when my youngest was an infant...in 2004...and recently some research that says, "Yes, it works." ...Just thought I'd mention it. It might make all that screaming a tad less.

Sun, 2010-02-07 09:52

 

when my 10yr old was a baby, we did a delayed schedule because she was a preemie and i felt she should get the shots based on when she was the *weight* of typical 2mos old or 12mo old, etc., so as to not overwhelm her immune system. she was caught up by 2.5 or 3 yrs old, i can't remember. My younger daughter, now 6mos old, is on the standard schedule.

The only vaccine i'm not sure about is chicken pox. elder daughter was not vaccinated for it and i was lucky enough to get her exposed to the wild virus. this course of action is getting much harder, as hardly anyone has chicken pox anymore.

overall, i'm very very very glad to see the article expunged and i really really really hope the fear mongering and proselytizing around vaccinations can go away now!

Sat, 2010-02-06 15:18

 

I vaccinate fully, on the recommended schedule. Neither of my children have had serious reactions. All the same, I do feel sort of relieved to hear that this study was expunged. I think there is always that niggling doubt at the back of your mind that says, "What if?"

With my 2nd child, my son, following his first round of vaccinations he got a rather large red mark on his leg a few hours later. At the time I tried to do some investigation to just re-assure myself that this was normal. Because, like I said, I believe in vaccination but I still worry about my kids because that is what parents do. It really turned me off that I couldn't find anything like a list of 'normal vaccine reactions' online. All I could find were anti-vaccine horror stories, and pro-vaccine statements about how SAFE and EFFECTIVE vaccines are. Because this issue has become so polarized, we can no longer have a frank discussion and say, "Look, your kid might have some swelling and a fever, and this is what's OK and this is what's not OK."

Fri, 2010-02-05 22:19

 

This was basically how I felt. I thought I was making the right decisions anyway, but with this official "proof", I feel better that I *did* make the best decision for my family.

Sat, 2010-02-06 18:11

 

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Fri, 2010-02-05 18:36

 
KH

I think this should draw attention to the fact the celebrities are NOT a good source of medical information.

Perhaps McCarthy's book could be expunged as well? :)

Fri, 2010-02-05 17:34

 

I remember hearing people call bullshit on this since way back before I even thought about having a child. So, when I got pregnant, I did a LOT of reading on the subject. I was *pretty* sure it wasn't true, but like Daphne said, I was still scared.

In the end, I read one reliable account of a condition being linked to a vaccine, and about a zillion that said there was no relationship, aside from the causal relationship of children who are already destined to be autistic having the process sped up by the mercury in some vaccines. (But even that is hotly debated.)

When it came time for the shots, my pediatrician sat me down and told me everything. The risks, the benefits, how the benefits GREATLY outweigh the risks, and in the end I made the decision to vaccinate. I wasn't surprised that he was fine.

I know that a mother with a sick child needs a scapegoat, I'm so certain that I would too. But, it's time to face the facts: the MMR is not your scapegoat. There's so much more that we need to learn about autism, and I wish we hadn't wasted all that time focusing on vaccinations.

Fri, 2010-02-05 17:21

 

I wavered, I held my breath, I debated spacing, because I was scared to death reading about the possible horrors if we vaccinated and she had a reaction. We went through with it anyway, and I was terrified. The MMR retraction came out about two weeks after my friend's 8 week old son died from pertussis (whooping cough). He was too little for the vaccine himself, and contracted it from an unvaccinated person. Between this retraction and my friend's horrible, awful, gut-wrenching nightmare (a nightmare from which she cannot wake up)...I'm now unashamedly pro-vaccine. And I'm not going to be scared off anymore.

Fri, 2010-02-05 14:08

 

Naturally there are still children who will suffer reactions to vaccines and who may even die from a vaccine. But that doesn't mean that people shouldn't vaccinate. It's kind of like using a car seat: it provides superior protection for your child, and just because some children die in their car seats in accidents doesn't mean car seats are "dangerous".

As far as the "debate" about vaccines, it's kind of like the "debate" about evolution: the only people debating it aren't scientists.

Fri, 2010-02-05 13:06

 

Evolution, really? Wow, that's an off-topic leap, no??

Fri, 2010-02-05 21:20

 

I have a friend who's spacing out the vaccines out of fear for autism, and it's like a part-time job for her. I had considered going this route, out of my general distrust of the medical profession, but the stats really point to vaccines being safe and having been safe for a while. My hippy friends thought I was nuts, though. "You had a home birth but you're vaccinating?" Yes, I guess I broke the crazy-person mold there!

Fri, 2010-02-05 13:04

 

It's interesting there are no anti-vax responses yet...I'm curious if they just aren't sure what to think/say, etc..or are really trying to wrap their heads around this. I would really like to hear from those who have not vaccinated and how they are taking this news.

I vaccinated. Like Classy says...It not only protects my child, but those that are unvaccinated! I'm doing two-fold protection, lol. The problem with the "herd" mentality, is that everyone else DOES need to vaccinate for your child not to be at risk.

I was wary of vaccines. Not b/c of autism in particular, but yes, there are some scary ingredients in them. No, I don't care about eggs and livers and all that stuff, I mean, frankly, that's typical food around here, lol. As I looked into it (and talked to chemistry experts!) I could see that the amounts offered posed very little threat, and even the possible reaction issues were low. I would rather have my kid limp (I did for a while after a vaccine when I was 3) than die!

Society is more transient, our produce comes from all over the world, people can carry diseases (Typhoid Mary anyone?) and get you sick, without having symptoms themselves! If my kids lived & died in the same small town...I might reconsider, I might have said, "No," to vaccines. But they're not going to. I knew at the minimum my kids might take off one day and decide to tour the world! I would hate for a lack of vaccine to be their end in a jungle far away...Turns out my husband joined the Army! Now we're around people who HAVE traveled the world...and picked up who knows what in their immune system that if my kids are exposed to, might cause them extreme harm. Do we over vaccinate? Maybe. But, sorry, could someone please point me to the local Polio clinic? Oh, wait...there isn't one. Interesting.

Fri, 2010-02-05 12:09

 

There is one thing that always gets stuck in my head about this whole debate. People criticize and tell parents how their child is going to get sick or develop autism blah blah blah because they vaccinated.

But look at it from a different perspective.

Those who DO vaccinate are protecting the other, non-vaccinated kids from a whole host of communicable diseases.

Because the vaccinated children aren't passing around these illnesses... the non-vaccinated children are more likely to stay healthy.

So the next time I hear a parent criticized for vaccinating (even in the light of this current development).... I'm going to want to say to that parent: you can thank these parents for keeping your non-vaccinated kids healthy.

I'm just sayin....

Fri, 2010-02-05 11:43

 

Oh, this vaccination issue gets me all riled up. Primarily because mothers are so judgy about it. I am pro-vaccination all the way. I have been ATTACKED, not just asked about it, but ATTACKED by other mothers that find out that I am vaccinating my twins. Whereas, I have never attacked a mother who doesn't vaccinate, although I think she is wrong.

The thing that frustrates me is that I am taking all the right precautions to protect my children from these diseases and because other people aren't there is still a chance that my children could not only be exposed but infected by one of these scary diseases. The sad part is that this is all because of some crazy man that decided to make up his findings.

I would really like to hear a good argument against vaccinations that has nothing to do with autism since that has now become a non issue thanks to many medical professionals coming out and saying the truth. No one can ever tell me any reason to not vaccinate besides autism.

Fri, 2010-02-05 09:29

 

I'm so glad y'all are talking about this subject. I think a lot of moms have been scared away from vaccinating for no good reason, and now some of these diseases are making a comeback. I am pro-vaccine because I understand math and science, but it seems that I find myself around a lot of people who make free to try to scare me about vaccines. When my son was 3 months old, a woman came to a dinner party and would NOT shut up about how horrible and dangerous vaccines were. She cited one case where a family with egg allergies went ahead and vaccinated a 6 week old, who later died (egg allergy is one of the few medical reasons not to get vaccinations). From her one anecdote, she made free to blame vaccines for SIDS, autism, mental retardation, and I can't recall what all. I reminded her that we had a three month old sleeping upstairs who was doing great with normal vaccines. She was all, "You're one of the lucky ones." As though most kids up and die. Really.

Fri, 2010-02-05 09:09

 

Daphne, I too breathed a huge sigh of relief when I read about how the doctor had falsified his findings. I am a huge believer in vaccinations, but when I heard Jenny McCarthy talk about her son, it scared the crap out of me.

Mostly though, I'm angry at that doctor who messed with soooo many people with his quacky report. My kids are all healthy, so I'm lucky, but I'm sure there are parents out there ready to lynch the guy.

I'm also pregnant again and as of right now plan on vaccinating. It would take some pretty compelling information to get me to change my mind.

@BeingSuper

Fri, 2010-02-05 07:34

 
 

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